The only thing that stops a man or woman from cheating, are their conscience saying, NO, NO, NO, IT'S NOT RIGHT TO CHEAT; but depending where a person is at, in his or her relationship, the strong drive of LUSTFUL DESIRES can override the MORAL THOUGHT process, causing one to fall weak into the hands of INFIDELITY; and once that happens, its bound to repeat itself over and over again.
The truth of the matter is, anyone can control their own LUST for something, the problem is, they don't want to, especially when "old habits are hard to kick". My opinion, if you let God direct your path, you can overcome all kinds of LUSTFUL DESIRES.
For me... I love big girls too much, It's a process which takes time to slow down, Im still working on me, Im just saying lol. Your Thoughts?